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DANA'S WORLD

A Candid Look at Life, Love, and the Pursuit of Alone-Time with Caregiver and Elder Exercise Instructor, Dana Brock

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Part 2:

THE BIG GAME

On Politics Today

RALPH:   So after your divorce, you returned to Oklahoma and you are back in our hometown now, which is quite conservative. I know you’re a progressive Democrat, and you’re also pretty outspoken. So, what’s it like being a bright blue person in such a solidly red town and state?

DANA:  Well, one of the problems we face as a nation is that everyone wants to listen to the news that they agree with, which just perpetuates the polarization. As far as news sources go, I watch MSNBC and CNN, but I watch other stations, too. I won’t watch Fox, though. Honestly, if someone tells me they’re watching Fox News, and that’s all they’re watching, that’s a huge red flag for me. Fox News was established as a media outlet for the conservative right, and it’s basically a propaganda station at this point. It’s not “fair and balanced” at all—it’s full of hate, and it preys on people’s fears. So whenever I run into someone who’s singing the praises of Fox or is promoting some nutty right-wing conspiracy theory, I have to let them know that I’m not on their team. But saying that you’re on the opposite side isn’t a good choice of words either because it immediately sets you up as the enemy. Often though, even when I’ve identified myself as a Democrat, they’ll continue with their right wing bullet points and disparaging names for President Biden. That bothers menot only because it’s skewed and negative, but because it is blatantly disrespectful of me and the views that I hold. After all, I’ve just told them that I’m a Democrat. It’s like they’re not even listening.

RALPH:  So what’s your take on the political climate in the US today?

DANA:  Okay, here’s my thing on that—Donald Trump got elected because he said he wasn’t a politician. A lot of people were looking for that back then, and I think they still are. They’re looking for someone who speaks their language and isn’t part of the government establishment because they don’t trust government. So Trump sold himself that way and a lot of people bought it. I also think a lot of Republican politicians are trying to copy that game plan by presenting themselves as regular folks who aren’t part of the so-called swamp. 

To be honest, I don’t know how you can be in politics without playing politics and pandering to some degree—but still, the GOP seems to have lost its connection to truth and integrity almost entirely. For instance, I don’t think anyone in GOP leadership ever believed that Hillary Clinton was running a pedophile ring in a pizza parlorbut when that story started to circulate on the internet, they either chimed in or they just let it run because it served their political purposes. I see this sort of thing happening a lot in the Republican Party, with senators and congressmen not speaking the truth, or even speaking the opposite of what they know to be true.

I’m not saying that people in the private sector and elsewhere should not run for public office. I’m just saying that if they do, they should be intelligent, capable, and rooted in integrity. Just look at Volodymyr Zelenskyy—he wasn’t a politician when the Ukrainians elected him President. He was a comedian. But it was his courage, integrity, and humanity that made him accessible to the people and elevated him as a true leader on the world stage. He’s really an inspiration to all of us now. Honestly, I think we need more pure-of-heart people like that in politics—people who genuinely care about others and the world in general. Those are the folks who need to start speaking out more. That goes for me, too, although I’m fairly vocal as it is. But the problem I have here in Oklahoma is that I don’t want to push conservative-minded people away, or piss them off so much that they tune me out completely. Obviously, that would not be helpful because you can’t change a person’s mind by preaching at them or pushing your ideas onto them. I’m not sure what the right approach is, but somehow, I feel like I need to get more in the game.

Cheerleading portrait (Jr. High) of Dana Brock kicking one leg high while holding pom-poms.

Cheerleading portrait, 1979

—Dana Brock